The Conversational Wingman

Almost as much as I like hearing the sound of my own voice, I enjoy playing the role of conversational wingman. As a matter of fact, I take a great amount of pride in my CW capabilities.



Some people take the task lightly, but this position requires more than meets the eye. There are several points to keep in mind. The ultimate goal for a CW is to ensure that the Pilot is viewed in a positive light by the other parties. It's your job to provide credibility, biased as it may be.

Be sure to smile and keep the energy positive. But if the Pilot says a joke that falls flat... you better be throwing in a couple of "hehes". Stick with "hehes" as a LOL would probably be over the top. Save the belly laughs for the right moments.

Throughout the conversation, you must utilize head nods appropriately (which symbolize that you agree with and kinda confirm the Pilot's points). We're shooting for a rhythmitic fashion. If you catch yourself looking like a freaking bobblehead... maybe consider sitting the next few plays out.

Note that it should be a cool calm and collected head nod. Almost like a half head nod. Something along the vibes of, "Oh yea, good point, Pilot. I didn't think of that. You're really contributing alot to our little chat here."

Finally, be sure to provide strong eye contact like they're saying the most intriguing shit you've ever heard!



Playing CW might not be glamorous, but it's certainly honorable. This weekend, get out of your own head, help a friend and take your game to the next level. That's Sprezzatura.