Get Set!

Put all your judgments aside regarding today's post. Yes, what I'm about to tell you should be common sense. I understand that, but do you know what?

People tend to not take enough advantage out of useful ideas that revolve around the obvious. You'll be much better off going forward with an open mind, contently aware that while you're reading, YOU can benefit by letting today's point sink in...


Do you see what I just did? I set the tone.

That's right, the tone. Tone is VERY important. It plays a monumental role in every interaction- business, personal relationships, random situations... etc.

Tone has long lasting effects and whether you like it or not, it's dictated right from the start. If you don't set it, one way or another, it will be set FOR you.

Plenty of times, either out of forgetfulness or laziness, I've neglected to set the tone, and usually end up regretting my decision. On the other hand, when you set out with clear expectations and work to see them carried out, you'll almost always get more accomplished.

Plus, the process is usually much more enjoyable for you.

Sure, in certain situations you may be too late to the draw or you're a guest at the party. Other times you may even prefer the spontaneity of submitting to life. After all, you can learn from observing other tone setters.

But if you like feeling in control, you had better set the tone in the beginning. Today is Monday. It's a brand new week.

Why not kick it off the right way?